Ramanujan was a great spiritual guru.One day one boy came to him and told him to ramanjanu that I want to know about god. Ramanujan looked at him and said I will tell you but first you tell me if you have loved anyone. The boy said no.Ramanujan asked try to remember any girl you have not loved. The boy says no. Ramanujan said no problem, have you loved your father or mother, boy said no. Have you loved your neighbour or any other relatives or even any animals or birds or anybody.the boy said no. Further asked by the guru you give me only one name to whom you loved. But the boy said I have not loved anybody. And I am nor at all interested in love. I want to search for God only.
Tears came in the eyes of the guru and said to the boy I can't tell you even a single word of god, when you have not loved anyone. I am sorry. If you want to find god you must have love in your heart. Go and love someone and then come.
So this is the reality.if you don't love anybody then how can you find God.
But in our world everybody says yes we love so many people. But ask yourself
Really you love.see when one man marries, he says I love my wife but if you go little deep you will find no love. When a wife does a thing which husband doesn't like,on the spot love disappears and quarreling starts. If a man does anything against his wife,the wife starts too much trouble for the husband. If the husband goes with his even friends, the wife will get upset. In so many houses a man is not ready to help his father and mother due to only his wife. And the poor father and mother suffer like anything. On the contrary, a wife helps his father and mother but not allow her husband to help his father and mother. What type of love we have, is this love ? Every mother is symbol of love and so many songs and stories are
Popular of mother's love. But if you go very little deep you see there is no love. when a boy doesn't get sufficient Marks he will be treated very badly. Even a one percent Mark less, means some mishap. Is this love and this cruel circle going till so many years. If a child becomes young parents will say do what I want. Marry only those boy or girl where they want. When a poor student comes in s.s.c.at that time a student is not matured and parents always force him to bring more and more marks. This is your child you have given him birth, now you always treat him as you want. Now you never thought you have not purchased a ROBOT from the market. You always treat your children like a ROBOT.
And always have hope that he should do as you want. Is this love what you are doing? Just think .
Then we have to go deeply into what is love, why everybody demands love and doesn't get it. It is a very crucial question and we all should go deep and of course ramanujan talked to that boy about love was not that love which we believe. But it is totally different.
We will all discuss in the next book about love real love which leads you to God .
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